I hope you had a very merry Christmas! We did… although it was looking a bit touch and go the week before when a tummy bug did the rounds in our home–twice!–and, in the midst of that, a last minute sermon request made it onto my ‘to do’ list. In the end, we had a marvellous celebration with a friend of ours, a Kiwi living in Holland who has now become a part of our Christmas tradition. He bought all sorts of Dutch treats–gouda! mustard! licorice! ginger cake! gin! dry sausage!–for us to enjoy alongside our traditional Christmas fare. It’s funny the things that have made it into the yearly must-have list: Advent calendar, nativity scene (with the Baby Jesus making his entrance on the 25th), tree complete with a popcorn chain (where did L. get this idea from?), Lego, pigs-in-a-blanket, and Brussels Sprouts. Our kids are small enough that it is not too hard to keep Christmas simple and a part of me wants it to stay like this forever.
Do you have any New Year’s resolutions? I know most people (with thoughts of self-denial and unreachable goals) roll their eyes when I ask, but I mean ‘resolution’ in the most expansive and enjoyable sense of the word. Usually I have a list of thirty or so things I want to get up to in the year. But this year, I have one tangible goal–sort out my photo system… groan. I have one thing to improve at–picking up rubbish as I walk. And I have a number of little projects that I would like to finish off or pick up again during 2018–I won’t bore you with them. There are no new things on my list to learn… although I am sure that I will learn new things until I die! There is nothing on my list to quit… although I am sure I could do with quitting at least one thing this year! One more thing: recently I learned that they (who exactly? Neurologists… I don’t know which ones) have proved how the brain can latch onto negative things/comments/events/interactions immediately, but it takes, on average, 15 minutes exposure to a positive thing for it to stick in the brain. Negativity sticks like velcro and positivity slides off like teflon. I am going to try my best to notice the positive things and sit as long as possible with them. So that’s it for my resolutions. Now yours?
Somehow we are in a musical phase in our viewing habits. I’m not sure this is a good thing. Les Mis. Fine. La La Land. Not sure yet… is 20 minutes in too early to pull out? However, have you seen Crazy Ex-Girlfriend? This was the beginning (and perhaps should have been the end) of our habit. Here are links to some of my favourite numbers: Remember That We’ve Suffered, Let’s Generalise About Men, and A Diagnosis.